Saturday, April 18, 2009

A Woman's Worth

Comments welcome:


Ben Coleman Jr Listening to Alicia Keys....Guys, you need to listen to "A Woman's Worth"....we'll learn together.Thu 7:39pm · via TweetDeck · Comment · LikeUnlike · Show Feedback (16)Hide Feedback (16)

You, Beulah Davis, Michael L. Hewlett, Terah Tate Williams and 5 others like this. Beulah Davis, Michael L. Hewlett, Terah Tate Williams and 5 others like this.

Fred Stewart at 8:47am April 18
in huys defense she says a REAL woman knows a real man when she see's one...hmmmmmmmm

Ben Coleman Jr at 8:51am April 18
Fist bump to the engineer guy. Just told someone the other day we do not know each other's worth, sometimes because we get caught up in our own worth.

Fred Stewart at 8:58am April 18
im i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t lol i hear more women say that than a little bit if u get to independent u'll spend ur life a-l-o-n-e Ben Coleman Jr at 9:02am April 18
Thanks, for s-p-e-l-l-i-n-g that out for us, Fred. That will be a blog for me one day soon...the affect of the absence of males in relationships on the over-independace of ladies. This single thing is really jacking up some good ladies, and in some case keeping them single longer than they should be. Ok. You talked me into it....of I go to blog.

Fred Stewart at 9:16am April 18
lets be honest its hard to be a good christian when ur single... u have "desires" and "wants" so if ur a good christian what are u doing to satisfy a and b.... i hear people sayin abstinence but 2 be real if u have already tasted "blood" ur gonna wanna do it again.... and like i say i hear people say that but in my unsaved days i could talk a "... Read Moresaved" woman into goin... bible talkin couldn't beat her speakin in tongue choir member and then afterward blame it on the devil???? hmmmm.... well and guys the same way..... what do u do???? its cute to be single but is it the will of God and if it is his will for u to be single where are kids commin from???? and if u accepted christ after the kids why the late night phone calls???? this can get real deep being a musician in the church all of my life ive seen alot of inependent christian women fall... why???? because it wasnt meant for u to be i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t

Ben Coleman Jr at 9:33am April 18
You are feeding my blog....I will address the indepedence first. The bible never speaks of our independence. When Christ sent the disciples out on the missionary trip, he sent them two by two. Noah's animals...twos. Adam and Eve. Moses and Joshua. Indepedence...especially among church, and black ladies...is a trap from Satan. He says, you ... Read Morehave had bad experiences with men, so take the "easy" road...do it by yourself. Not only are they excluding men, they are exerting indepence from God....that's double trouble.

Why do we fall into temptation? A couple reasons...I am currently mixing sound for a play called "Temptations" (http://gdavisplays.com - shameless plug). Garrett has written a great play on why we cheat. One reason is we are not honest. The church spends so much energy avoiding the topic of sex, we fall into it. Its like saying...I know there are wholes out there, but I am gonna close my eyes and pray that I do not fall in them. Physical desire.... Ben Coleman Jr at 9:35am April 18
....is a very real thing. We do not respect it, so it takes advantage of us. If we would begin to see the obvious, and then allow God to help us manage it...we'll quit falling so quick.

No comments: